29 Best Things To Do in Santa Barbara for Couples (2025)

Best Things to Do in Santa Barbara for Couples

Whether you’re looking for a relaxing, romantic getaway or an adventurous date, Santa Barbara has something special for every couple. Here’s a handpicked list of the best activities to enjoy together.

1. Spend a Romantic Day at the Beach

⏰ Time Needed: 4-6 hours
💲 Budget: Free

A couples’ retreat in Santa Barbara wouldn’t be complete without quality time at the beach. From East Beach to West Beach and even the serene shores of Montecito, there are plenty of picturesque spots to relax and soak in the sun.

Take a stroll hand-in-hand, pack a picnic, or go for a refreshing swim—there’s nothing better than a sun-kissed beach day.

💡 Romantic Tip: Surprise your partner with a luxury beach setup from Santa Barbara Together, a local company that provides romantic setups with umbrellas, cozy blankets, and charcuterie boards. As the sun sets, toast with champagne and enjoy the ultimate beachfront date. Book your beach day here and get 10% off!

2. Sip Cocktails at Montecito’s Most Romantic Hotels

⏰ Time Needed: 2-4 hours
💲 Budget: Varies

Montecito offers some of the most elegant and romantic places for a drink. These locations not only serve top-notch cocktails but also boast stunning ambiance and breathtaking views.

• Rosewood Miramar – Overlooks the beach with a dreamy coastal vibe.
• San Ysidro Ranch – One of the most romantic spots, known for its lush gardens and cozy ambiance. Easily the most beautiful spot in Montecito! Stop in the Plow and Angel for remarkable ambiance.
• The Biltmore & Coral Casino – Offers stunning views of Butterfly Beach with gorgeous palm trees and Spanish-style architecture.

💡 Romantic Tip: After cocktails be sure to take a walk down the beach and explore the gorgeous grounds under the stars of these world class resorts.

3. Wine Tasting in the Hills or Downtown

⏰ Time Needed: 3-6 hours
💲 Budget: $20+ per tasting

Santa Barbara County is renowned for its world-class wineries. You can stay local and explore the many charming tasting rooms downtown or take a scenic drive to the vineyards in Santa Ynez.

• Downtown Favorite: Grassini Family Vineyards – A family-owned winery with an adorable tasting room tucked in one of Santa Barbara’s prettiest courtyards.
• Santa Ynez Favorite: Sunstone Winery – A breathtaking estate featuring an old-world villa, rolling vineyards, and delicious wines. Perfect for a romantic day trip!

💡 Romantic Tip: Book a private wine-tasting experience at Sunstone Winery or if you are looking to propose inquire about their Proposal Package for a one of a kind proposal in a breathtaking setting.

4. Enjoy a Picnic at the Santa Barbara Mission

⏰ Time Needed: 2-4 hours
💲 Budget: Free

The Old Mission Santa Barbara, often called the “Queen of the California Missions,” is a stunning landmark surrounded by lush rose gardens and historical charm.

Pack a picnic and enjoy a peaceful afternoon on the sprawling lawns, surrounded by vibrant rose gardens and classic Spanish architecture. It’s the perfect spot to slow down, relax, and appreciate the beauty of Santa Barbara together.

💡 Romantic Tip: Bring a cozy blanket, pack your partners favorite foods and share an unforgettable, heartfelt moment at one of the prettiest spots in all of California.

5. Rent Bikes

⏰ Time Needed: 4-6 hours
💲 Budget: Varies

Santa Barbara is an ideal city to explore by bike. A scenic bike path runs along the beach, offering breathtaking views and a chance to experience local life. Stop for lunch at one of the charming beachfront restaurants—our favorite is Reunion Kitchen, right by the ocean.

For a different vibe, ride up State Street, the town’s lively main drag, which is lined with bike lanes and filled with charming shops and cafes.

A great rental option is Santa Barbara Bikes To Go.

💡 Romantic Tip: Rent a two-seater tandem bike for a fun, lighthearted experience and stop at the Santa Barbara Pier for ice cream as a sweet ending to your ride. Last time we did this as a couple we had the best time and laughed the entire ride!

6. Sunset Paddleboarding or Kayaking

⏰ Time Needed: 2-4 hours
💲 Budget: Varies

Seeing Santa Barbara from the water is a magical experience and is one of my favorite ways to see the coast. Rent a paddleboard or kayak at the harbor and cruise along the coastline, weaving through boats and taking in the stunning sunset.

For those who prefer a guided experience, Santa Barbara Adventure Tours offers rentals and guided tours, ensuring a fun and safe adventure.

💡 Romantic Tip: Schedule a sunset paddle for a magical experience while you watch the sun go down together. You might even see dolphins!

7. Attend an Outdoor Concert

⏰ Time Needed: 2-4 hours
💲 Budget: Varies

The Santa Barbara Bowl is a world-famous outdoor concert venue that hosts some of the biggest names in music. Their season runs from April to October, so be sure to check the lineup to see if a show aligns with your visit.

There’s nothing quite like enjoying live music under the stars with your significant other in one of the most beautiful venues in California.

💡 Romantic Tip: Surprise your partner with the tickets by attaching them to a flower bouquet or nice bottle of wine.

8. Rent a Boat or Jet Skis

⏰ Time Needed: 2-4 hours
💲 Budget: Varies but prices start at $50

For a thrill on the water, rent a jet ski or a mini powerboat (no license required) from Santa Barbara Boats. Cruise along the coastline or head into the open water for an adrenaline-pumping adventure.

This is a fantastic way to add excitement to your Santa Barbara getaway while taking in breathtaking ocean views. We love both these activities and have had so much fun cruising out on the water.

💡 Romantic Tip: If you rent the mini powerboat be sure to pack a small snack including local Santa Barbara products like fresh strawberries, cheese and crackers.

9. Shop Along State Street

⏰ Time Needed: 2-4 hours
💲 Budget: Varies

State Street is Santa Barbara’s bustling main avenue, stretching from the beach up 14 blocks. It’s packed with boutique shops, amazing restaurants, and stunning Spanish-style architecture.

Spend the afternoon browsing unique local stores like The Blue Door and shops in La Arcana Plaza. Whether you’re window-shopping or indulging in retail therapy, State Street offers a little something for everyone.

💡 Romantic Tip: Pick up a souvenir while shopping for your partner to remind them of your time shared in Santa Barbara.

10. Spa Day

⏰ TIME NEEDED: 2-3 hours
💲 BUDGET: Prices start at $100

Spending some relaxing time together at one of Santa Barbara’s luxurious spas is a wonderful activity for couples in Santa Barbara. 

Some of our favorite spas are Float Luxury Spa, The Spa at El Encanto Hotel and the beautiful spa at Hotel California.

💡 Romantic Tip: Sign up for a couples massage and have a fresh lunch after being pampered and refreshed.

11. Sunset Cruise 

⏰ TIME NEEDED: 3-4 hours
💲 BUDGET: Varies but prices start at $50

Set off on a sunset sail for a romantic time with your significant other.  It is a beautiful and enchanting way to see Santa Barbara from the water as the sun goes down. 

You can be part of the Double Dolphin which takes groups of people out every evening for an incredible sunset cruise.

💡 Romantic Tip: For something more decadent and intimate you can charter a sailboat and pack some champagne and snacks for a two-hour private sailboat trip.

12. Stroll the Boats in the Harbor

⏰ TIME NEEDED: 2-3 hours
💲 BUDGET: FREE

The harbor is a beautiful location to spend some meaningful time walking around and exploring the beautiful boats and views Santa Barbara has to offer. On Saturday mornings there’s a fresh fish market that gives you a great look into lives of locals and there are some fantastic restaurants where you can sip cocktails later in the day. i

💡 Romantic Tip: Plan a romantic dinner at Brophy´s one of our top restaurant picks in the harbor, where you can watch the sun set while eating some local seafood.

13. Helicopter Ride over Santa Barbara

⏰ TIME NEEDED: 3-4 hours
💲 BUDGET: Rides start at $59

OK, so a helicopter tour might sound rather extravagant. However, this is one of our favorite dates to have in Santa Barbara.

Leaving from the Santa Barbara airport with a locally owned company and you fly over Santa Barbara getting one kind of view of the beach, stunning coastline and gorgeous estates located on the hills of Santa Barbara and Montecito

This is not for people who are afraid of flying as it’s a tiny little helicopter but well worth it if you are up for the adventure.

💡 Romantic Tip: Head to The Ellwood Restaurant after your ride for a meal right on the sand. This is a cozy and off the beaten track spot with one of the best views on the coast. Be sure to try one of their signature cocktails.

14. Hike

⏰ TIME NEEDED: 4-6 hours
💲 BUDGET: FREE

There are some incredible hikes to be had in Santa Barbara and this is a great activity to do as a couple. There are a variety of hikes ranging in difficulty but there’s something for everyone.

The weather is pretty much perfect year round in Santa Barbara so lace up those hiking boots and take in some gorgeous vistas of the ocean and the channel islands.

Some of our top recommendations are Lizards Mouth and Montecito Peak via Cold Spring Trail. The views will not disappoint.

15. Stearns Wharf

⏰ Time Needed: 2-3 hours
💲 Budget: Free

Step onto Stearns Wharf, California’s oldest working wharf, dating back to 1872. The iconic Dolphin Fountain, sculpted by local artist Bud Bottoms, welcomes you at the entrance, setting the tone for a magical experience.

Take a romantic stroll along the weathered wooden planks above the sparkling Pacific Ocean, and soak in the gorgeous views from the pier.

Dine at one of the waterfront restaurants, Santa Barbara Shellfish & Co. is our favorite, where you can enjoy fresh seafood with unbeatable ocean views. Before you leave, browse the charming boutique shops for a special keepsake to remember your visit.

💡 Romantic Tip: Visit just before sunset and grab a glass of wine or an ice cream cone to enjoy while watching the sky change colors over the Pacific. It´s a magical place to be at that time of night.

Check out more Iconic Santa Barbara Attractions here.

16. Santa Barbara Art Walk

⏰ Time Needed: 2-4 hours
💲 Budget: Free

Every Sunday (and Saturdays on holiday weekends), the Santa Barbara Arts & Crafts Show transforms Cabrillo Boulevard into an outdoor gallery. Featuring more than 200 talented local artists, this event is perfect for art-loving couples. You’ll find everything from handmade jewelry and sculptures to original paintings and photography.

Grab a coffee, walk beneath the palm trees, and take in the ocean views while discovering one-of-a-kind treasures. It’s a relaxing and romantic way to spend a weekend morning in Santa Barbara.

💡 Romantic Tip: Surprise your partner by secretly purchasing a piece of art that they admire—an unforgettable keepsake from your trip.

17. Farmers Market

⏰ Time Needed: 1-2 hours
💲 Budget: Free

For a true local experience, visit the Santa Barbara Certified Farmers Market and immerse yourselves in the vibrant flavors of the region. With fresh, organic produce, artisan cheeses, handmade pastries, and beautiful flowers, this is the perfect place to pick up ingredients for a romantic picnic.

Our favorite time to go? Saturday mornings (8 AM – 1 PM) when the market is at its liveliest, or Tuesdays (3 PM – 6:30 PM) for a cozy evening stroll.

💡 Romantic Tip: Buy your partner a bouquet of fresh flowers from local Gardners to commemorate your visit.

18. Explore Local Events

⏰ Time Needed: Varies
💲 Budget: Free

Santa Barbara is full of unique, one-of-a-kind experiences every week! From book signings and art exhibits to live music and pop-up markets, there’s always something happening. Check The Independent, Santa Barbara’s local newspaper, for the latest events during your stay.

💡 Romantic Tip: Find an outdoor jazz or acoustic music event, bring a cozy blanket, and enjoy an impromptu date night under the stars.

19. Horseback Riding on the Beach

⏰ Time Needed: 2-3 hours
💲 Budget: Prices start at $55

There’s nothing more romantic than a sunset horseback ride along the beach. Whether you’re a beginner or an experienced rider, private and semi-private guided rides will take you along the stunning coastline or through scenic bluff trails. It’s an intimate and unforgettable experience to share with your partner.

20. Surf Lessons for Two

⏰ Time Needed: 2-3 hours
💲 Budget: Prices start at $50

Trying something new and adventurous together is a great way to bond, and surfing in Santa Barbara is an absolute must! Local surf schools, like Santa Barbara Surf School, offer private and beginner-friendly lessons, so don’t worry if you’ve never caught a wave before.

Feeling competitive? See who can stand up on their board first! Either way, you’ll share lots of laughs and make amazing memories in the water.

21. Parasailing Over the Coast

⏰ Time Needed: 1 hour
💲 Budget: Prices start at $65

For thrill-seeking couples, nothing beats soaring high above the ocean while parasailing together. With Santa Barbara’s calm waters and breathtaking coastal views, it’s the perfect place to experience this adrenaline rush. Plus, the views of the Channel Islands, mountains, and coastline from above are simply unforgettable.

💡 Romantic Tip: Hold hands while flying through the sky, and after landing, celebrate your adventure with champagne at a nearby oceanfront bar.

22. Santa Barbara Courthouse & Sunken Gardens

⏰ Time Needed: 1-2 hours
💲 Budget: Free

One of the most beautiful public buildings in the country, the Santa Barbara County Courthouse is a must-visit for couples. The Spanish-Colonial architecture, lush gardens, and panoramic views from the clock tower create the perfect setting for a romantic afternoon.

Pack a picnic and relax in the Sunken Garden, or visit during summer when outdoor movie nights take place under the stars.

💡 Romantic Tip: Climb to the top of the clock tower and take in the sweeping views of the red rooftops and ocean.

23. Santa Barbara Botanic Garden

⏰ Time Needed: 2-3 hours
💲 Budget: $20

Escape into nature with a romantic walk through the Santa Barbara Botanic Garden, a 78-acre paradise filled with native Californian plants. Wander through towering redwoods, cacti-filled deserts, and serene meadows, all while enjoying sweeping views of the Santa Ynez Mountains.

This is the perfect spot for couples who love quiet moments in nature and stunning landscapes.

💡 Romantic Tip: Walk to the Japanese teahouse, find a secluded bench, and share a quiet, intimate moment surrounded by nature.

24. Candle or Chocolate Making Workshop

⏰ Time Needed: 1-2 hours
💲 Budget: $25-$55

Get creative together with a hands-on workshop!

• At Candle Bar 111, you can design your own custom candle, choosing from a variety of scents and colors—making for a personalized keepsake of your trip.
• For the chocolate lovers, Menchaca Chocolates offers chocolate-making workshops, where you’ll craft signature chocolates and learn about the process from bean to bar.

Either way, you’ll leave with a sweet reminder of your time in Santa Barbara.

💡 Romantic Tip: Exchange your handmade candles or chocolates as special gifts to remind each other of this fun and creative date.

25. Take in a Show at the Arlington or Granada Theatres

⏰ Time Needed: 2-4 hours
💲 Budget: $15-$30

For a romantic night out in Santa Barbara, step back in time with a visit to one of the city’s historic theaters.

The Arlington Theatre, home to the Santa Barbara International Film Festival, is a true architectural gem. Inside, you’ll find a magical Spanish village ambiance, complete with balconies, twinkling lights, and an impressive high ceiling that makes you feel like you’re sitting under the stars. Whether it’s a film screening, a concert, or a comedy show, this venue offers a charming and intimate setting for a date night.

The Granada Theatre, another elegant landmark, hosts world-class performances, including symphonies, ballets, and Broadway-style shows. If you and your partner appreciate arts and culture, this is the perfect place to dress up and enjoy a sophisticated evening together.

💡 Romantic Tip: End the night with a cocktail or dessert at a cozy nearby lounge like The Good Lion or Milk & Honey for an extra touch of romance. Two of our absolute favorite spots!

26. Stroll Through Alice Keck Park Memorial Garden

⏰ Time Needed: 1-2 hours
💲 Budget: Free

For a peaceful and romantic escape, head to Alice Keck Park Memorial Garden, one of Santa Barbara’s most picturesque green spaces. This beautifully landscaped park is home to more than 70 species of trees and plants, vibrant flowers, and a serene koi pond where turtles bask in the sun.

Find a quiet bench to sit and enjoy the surroundings, or take a leisurely walk through the sensory garden, featuring fragrant plants and Braille interpretive signs. The gazebo overlooking the water is a perfect spot to share a quiet moment with your partner.

After exploring the park, stroll through the surrounding bungalow neighborhood, where charming Santa Barbara homes add to the romantic atmosphere.

💡 Romantic Tip: Pack a picnic with wine and cheese and enjoy a relaxing afternoon together in this peaceful oasis.

27. Take a Couples’ Dance Class at Arthur Murray

⏰ Time Needed: 1-2 hours
💲 Budget: $75

What’s more romantic than dancing with your love? At Arthur Murray Dance Studio, you and your partner can learn salsa, tango, or ballroom dance in a fun and intimate setting.

Whether you’re experienced dancers or complete beginners, this is a great way to connect, laugh, and move together. Plus, you’ll leave with a new skill that you can carry into future date nights!

💡 Romantic Tip: After your dance lesson, celebrate with a glass of wine at a nearby wine bar like Grassini Family Vineyards. It is in one of our all time favorite courtyards in Santa Barbara.

28. Beach Yoga at Sunrise or Sunset

⏰ Time Needed: 1 hour
💲 Budget: $20

Start or end your day relaxing together with a beachfront yoga class. Imagine the sound of waves gently crashing, a soft ocean breeze, and a stunning sunrise or sunset as your backdrop—perfect for reconnecting and unwinding.

Local studios offer beach yoga classes for all levels, making it easy to join a session that suits your pace. It’s an amazing way to stretch, breathe, and share a moment of mindfulness with your partner.

💡 Romantic Tip: After your session, take a leisurely walk along the shoreline, or grab an acai bowl or fresh juicefrom a nearby café like Backyard Bowls.

29. Explore the Santa Barbara Art Scene

⏰ Time Needed: 2-3 hours
💲 Budget: Free

For art-loving couples, Santa Barbara’s art scene is a must-experience. Every first Thursday of the month, downtown Santa Barbara comes alive with an art and culture walk, where galleries and venues open their doors for free. Enjoy live music, art exhibitions, wine tastings, and artist receptions, all while strolling through the charming streets of downtown Santa Barbara.

If you’re visiting outside of First Thursday, don’t miss the Santa Barbara Museum of Art. Recently renovated, this museum boasts impressive exhibitions, including pieces from Monet, Picasso, and Matisse, making it an unexpectedly world-class museum in a small coastal town.

💡 Romantic Tip: Cap off the evening with a romantic dinner at Bouchon or the Loquita..two amazing local spots with lots of ambiance.

Conclusion: Best Things to Do in Santa Barbara for Couples

This is just the beginning of the romantic adventures awaiting you in Santa Barbara! Stay tuned for more couple-friendly activities!

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